I've never dated. Sure, I've gone out on dates, and such, but I've never really dated a person. You know, spent hours getting to know someone and slowly spending more time with them, but not entering into a relationship. How do people do this and still maintain enough distance to not get too attached? Will it end up that one person will inevitably get hurt? And will that one person be me? I have no idea how to do this adult dating thing. I guess I'm still stuck in my youth in this department, focusing on one person at a time, rather than getting to know multiple people and not entering into something romantic. Or maybe what I call hanging out is dating, it's just that I equate that with my tomboy youth and think it's still just friends getting together.
I must admit that it's a confusing concept for me. I'm hoping for clarity, understanding, and am thankful for the opportunity to grow in this way.
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